Comments for Anticipated Serendipity

Comment on 29th December 2008 by Jeannette

Jeannette — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 08:07:30 +0000

Congrats on the weight loss! I tend to lose weight when I don’t think about losing weight.

As far as the man situation goes, my only advice would be to wait until well after the holidays to make any decisions. If you’re anything like me, you get a bit sentimental around X-mas/New Years.

Comment on 28th December 2008 He Wants To Reconcile by BoringSAHM

BoringSAHM — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 21:47:44 +0000

Re-read your last paragraph, you don’t need him, you ccan be happy living life without him and the constant fear or that nagging feeling of lost trust. You trust yourself and know what your capable of, what makes you happy… keep following that.

Comment on 27th December 2008 by BoringSAHM

BoringSAHM — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 07:11:24 +0000

Oh my sweet rainbow, like your name you need to seek the other side and find your little pot of gold, I do believe that it is there waiting for you and there you will find your true spirt there too.

Comment on My Poem by BoringSAHM

BoringSAHM — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 06:56:58 +0000

So beautiful and sad at the same time.

Comment on I loved him too much by ali

ali — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 12:30:35 +0000

Dearest Yas

Read your blog from Sept 5..what did you feel that time when you wrote it has been the happiest time for the last two years? Remember and write down those thoughts

As for loving too much..that is not bad…but you need to love yourself more.. now it is time to heal and make sure you are refueled up for life so you can attack it with the same love, pasison and audacity that I know you have!

I know this may be hard but have you considered going “cold turkey” on him? Not seeing him, being in contact?. I know this may be hard for you but to move on, it may be necessary until you are at the point of not being affected by what he says or does. I did this when I first moved to the USA… you remember my situation… I refused and ignored ALL calls, meetings etc with the ex (even though I knew NO ONE and was terribly lonely and homesick for a while). It was hard… and it probably took me about a year or more before I was able to talk to him again and have no emotion. he didn’t upset me or anything. Nothing. I think you need this empowerment.. what do you think? Just a suggestion…
sending you a HUGE hug! xx

Comment on 5th September 2008: Happier than I have been in 2-3 years by ali

ali — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 12:21:55 +0000

hey gorgeous….I am so glad you are doing well…. have missed you heaps and can’t wait to see you in a few more days!! ! have a wonderful weekend, love and big hugs, al xxx

Comment on 10th August 2008 – Sunday by ali

ali — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:49:36 +0000

Yas! I miss you! But Scott and I are coming to melbourne so soon and I can’t wait to see you !! keep smiling and thinking of you..wish i was closer but you are always in my thoughts! Love al xx

Comment on 10th August 2008 – Sunday by Jeannette

Jeannette — Sun, 10 Aug 2008 11:38:10 +0000

Glad to hear you sounding happier.

Hey, I’m in de-clutter mode too. I cleaned out more than half my wardrobe of ancient stuff I never wear or is falling apart. I’m giving the decent stuff to charity, just have to lug it over to the container when I find the time. It feels really good to have some room in my closet, but boy do I need more clothes now!!

Comment on 2nd August 2008 Saturday by BoringSAHM

BoringSAHM — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 23:17:13 +0000

Oh that Satay recipe sounds divine, you have to take a photo and share the recipe, is it a hot/spicy satay?

You sound well Rainbow, one day at time is the right way to think and just keep doing the things you love.

Comment on 20th July 2008 Sunday by Boringsahm

Boringsahm — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 05:28:46 +0000

I love my DS and I’m sure you will too! If we connect up to that Wi Fi thing we could even play each other on some games!

I think the trip would be wonderful, you should do it, start by putting your loose change away everyday, or to push your exercise by charging yourself $2 a walk and save it towards your trip, in your mind say “For every step I take, I get closer to Africa and a trip of a lifetime.

When you get half way, book the holiday in a lay-buy scheme sort of deal (heaps of agents do it) and make sure you have a trek or 2 in the trip and this will enthuse you even more to become fitter before you go on your holiday!

Go for it!